Doris Said:

Am I going overboard with my wedding theme?

We Answered:

As long as you do it subtly it should be ok.

It is a lot of hearts.. just let some of the hearts be sort of faint so that they blend in with the surroundings. I went to a wedding one time and the girl LOVED pink. When we walked into the Church it looked like someone sprayed Pepto Bismal all over the place. So... I guess just be careful that you don't drive your guest crazy with hearts.
The cake is pretty by the way.

Chester Said:

Why don't we have "Divorce Showers?"?

We Answered:

Ha ha there's an episode of sex in the city where Carrie throws herself a wedding in order to get back a lost pair of shoes (lost at a baby shower!) The whole episode is along the lines of I've spent a fortune on engagement/wedding/baby gifts so why should i get nowt cos i'm not getting married!

Janet Said:

my preggers bm is driving me nuts!?

We Answered:

Actually did read this. It's time to put a stop to this by putting your foot down. Copy and paste this note to her if you want.

"Sorry the dresses have been such an issue because all of this has been totally unnecessary. However, I have chosen a dress that you need to order if you still plan to be in the wedding. I don't have any additional time to worry about this. If you feel this is too much for you right now, I will understand. However, the dress that I sent to you is what I need for you to wear. It is the best dress to coordinate with the other gals. If you want to give me your credit card number I'll be glad to place the order for you and have it shipped to your home. If you decide not to order it, please let me know so I will be able to make necessary adjustments to the line up. Thanks so much."

Don't apologize for being matter of fact. Don't buy into her drama. Don't waste any more time on this. You're the bride. You made the decision. She chose not to cooperate and now she has to pay a bit higher price than the other gals. However, THAT is not your responsibility. She needs to deal with it. By sending this note, you have made a decision and put the "ball" back in her lap to run with. If she chooses not to cooperate, then she's not in the wedding. That has been made clear.

IF she comes back with "it's too expensive" then tell her this. "I spent $140 for the dress to be in your wedding. I will pay for your bridesmaid dress IF you will reimburse me for the $140 for the dress I wore to your wedding." (She will realize that means she owes you money. It's the only way I can think of to get through her thick skull that this excuse isn't going to fly with you.)